written by Della M. Cummings Wright
Rewritten by her granddaughter Dell Jo Ann McGinnis Johnson
Edited and Reworded by Tom Dunn,(in) 1943.
Bob Dunn aka "The Storyteller" of Houston, TX., Author
We are the chosen. In each family there is one who seems called to find the ancestors.
To put flesh on their bones and make them live again, to tell the family story and to feel that
somehow they know and approve.
Doing genealogy is not a cold gathering of facts but, instead, breathing life into all who have
gone before. We are the storytellers of the tribe. All tribes have one. We have been called, as
it were, by our genes. Those who have gone before cry out to us, "Tell our story!" So, we do.
In finding them, we somehow find ourselves. How many graves have I stood before now and cried?
I have lost count. How many times have I told the ancestors, "You have a wonderful family; you
would be proud of us." How many times have I walked up to a grave and felt somehow there was love
there for me? I cannot say.
It goes beyond just documenting facts. It goes to who am I and why do I do the things I do. It
goes to seeing a cemetery about to be lost forever to weeds and indifference and saying, "I can't
let this happen." The bones here are bones of my bone and flesh of my flesh. It goes to doing
something about it. It goes to pride in what our ancestors were able to accomplish, how they
contributed to what we are today. It goes to respecting their hardships and losses, their never
giving in or giving up, their resoluteness to go on and build a life for their family.
It goes to deep pride that the fathers fought and some died to make and keep us a Nation. It goes
to a deep and immense understanding that they were doing it for us. It is of equal pride and love
that our mothers struggled to give us birth. Without them we could not exist, and so we love each
one, as far back as we can reach. That we might be born who we are. That we might remember them.
So we do.
With love and caring and scribing each fact of their existence, because we are they and they are
the sum of who we are. So, as a scribe called, I tell the story of my family. It is up to that one
called in the next generation to answer the call and take my place in the long line of family
That is why I do my family genealogy, and that is what calls those young and old to step up and
restore the memory or greet those whom we had never known before.
Text obtained via Sjouwke, origin found by Patti Lee Gates